When we hear the phrase Team Building Activity, what comes to mind?
Picnic?
Excursion?
Out-of-town Trip?
RoadTrip?
Swimming?
Plenty of Food?
Picnic?
Excursion?
Out-of-town Trip?
RoadTrip?
Swimming?
Plenty of Food?
Well, right after the stressful 2016 Elections, all of us in our office could only wish for one thing: a break! we needed a break and we wanted a 'getaway' !
PREPARATIONS
Just when
does a TBA start? Does it start when you arrive at the venue?
First of all,
as the phrase 'team building activity' connotes, the undertaking implies that its
intention is to “build the team”.
Gauging it from the current interpersonal relationships among the 16
personnel of the ODEDA, including this writer, I would say that indeed, we would be trying to build, or re-build a team, our team. At the moment there are
16 personalities that could be described as 16 islands in an archipelago.
So when did
the TBA start? It started during the time when we decided to hold the TBA and
when we initiated preparatory activities such as deciding on the venue and
practicing for the contests.
DECIDING ON THE VENUE
The 3 Options:
After I researched on possible venues, my short-list led us into voting on the 3 following options:
The 3 Options:
After I researched on possible venues, my short-list led us into voting on the 3 following options:
Patar Beach, Bolinao, Pangasinan (photocredits to the owner of this picture)
Alibijaban Island, San Andres, Quezon (Photocredits Albert The Backpacker)
Salapasap Beach, Cabugao, Ilocos Sur
Building a
team entails cooperation and humility.
When we voted on the venue, we respected the choice of the
majority. So even if some of us did not
like the venue with the most votes, we humbly obliged and respected the
majority choice: Salapasap Beach, Cabugao, Ilocos Sur (Analyn's hometown).
PRACTICES
During the
practices, we had fun!! We had the chance to unleash our hidden talents,
wackiness, sense of humor, and many emotions that we couldn’t display when
doing serious office work.
Our road trip
was a grueling 12-hour trip. Well, we
chose Cabugao so we had no choice. We used 3 vehicles.
At one point, my vehicle lost the other two vehicles
because of different road map interpretations.
Funny!! But the good thing is, we got to eat in a superb restaurant at
San Juan, Ilocos Sur, “Cube” …. The resto had rustic yet classy ambiance, very
typical of Ilocos structures, and it served sumptuous bagnet-studded
recipe. The star of the show was its
great-tasting house ice tea that had blended lychee bits!!
One nice
thing about out-of-town office activities is we get to eat ‘home-cooked' food that we don’t enjoy everyday.
THE SALAPASAP WELCOME
We arrived
past midnight as expected. We were all
exhausted, with tired bodies, stiff necks and sleepy souls. But we felt instantaneously refreshed when we
saw a grand welcome banquet waiting for us, patiently manned by the mother and
sister (with a sleepless baby) of Analyn plus one of the Barangay Kagawads of
Salapasap. So we immediately had our
midnight meal!!!! The midnight gastronomic feast recharged us. It made Espie and the rest of the girls
hyper!; chatting at the top of their voices unmindful of the fact that the rest
of the community was in deep slumber. I
had to call their attention and reminded them that we needed to respect the community and we should sleep soonest;
tomorrow would be the TBA and we had to wake up early for the Amazing Race.
With much
excitement and gratitude for the prepared beds, we occupied our respective
makeshift beds in the Barangay Hall Guest Room and immediately fell asleep. The roaring sound of the first summer rain was like a lullaby as we breathed in the therapeutic breeze that came from the
nearby sea.
DAY 1
The Amazing Race
Even without
the usual 4:30AM alarm that sadistically wakes me up every working day, I woke
up and saw that everyone was in his/her deepest sleep. With regret, I had to wake everyone as we needed
to start the Amazing Race before breakfast.
Everyone joyfully obliged with excitement! After taking pictures of the beautiful
sunrise, we started the Amazing Race.
the promise of a new day
warming-up and cheer shout-out showdown!
Admittedly,
my concept, written instructions and coordination with the race officials were not flawless. So some of the
instructions were unclear. The seven (7)
pairs went on with the amazing race with varying interpretations and emotions: confusion, sense of
adventure, wackiness, embarrassment, awkwardness, some with monstrous drive and
motivation to win, hesitation, anxiety, the joy of being a child again, the
happiness of not having to work, but just do pure child’s play and fun fun fun!
The Forgets
Bridge Over Troubled Water
Si Tulala at Si Tawa vs The Snoring Duo
searching for the instructions....
(while lying down daw e!) oo nga naman...
the winning duo (homecourt advantage?)
seryoso si Precious, lagot ka William!
Discoveries:
Ø The
girls looked great tho at times awkward during the Hawaiian-themed photo-shoot
as part of the amazing race (pit stop number 5).
serious pose ang nasa instruction, Espie. hindi wacky.
Ø Instructions
are subject to many many different interpretations that are actually correct in
their own right;
hehehe, William, bakit ka nakaganyan??? yan ba ang instruction? :D
Ø Some
of us are highly competitive on one extreme, and on the other extreme, some
have conceded defeat even before the start. :D
Ø It’s
good to include picture-taking as part of the requirement because along the
way, we document memories..
Lessons learned:
Ø Read
and understand instructions very well;
Ø Forget
the negative things you feel about your partner and consider yourselves as a
team and not as two separate individuals;
Ø We
knew more of the personal side, traits, strengths and weaknesses,
circumstances, life situations of our partner during out-of-town and
out-of-office situations. It is a
humbling experience to set aside differences and spend time with one another
not as officemates but as teammates;
Ø Haste
makes waste. Sometimes, speed is not the
only important factor that determines victory.
We also need to consider safety, teamwork, planning and coordination.
Ø The
caring side of each of us surfaces during dangerous situations.
Ø By
nature, we have an instinct to win or at least to finish a race.
There should have been a briefing among the facilitators...
At least one participant was injured (Jonalyn). The 7 pairs (teams) should have been thoroughly warned about the Safety First rule.
Regrets
Not being able to prepare well for the rules and instructions. The instructions should have been clearer and not subject to different interpretations; There should have been a briefing among the facilitators...
At least one participant was injured (Jonalyn). The 7 pairs (teams) should have been thoroughly warned about the Safety First rule.
THE BALL RACE
One of the games that made us laugh the most is this ball race where we
had to walk with a beach ball between our knees.
Discoveries and Lessons Learned:
Ø It’s
fun to be funny and awkward!
Ø If
we fail, we can start all over again, and if we fail again, we don’t stop
trying until we succeed;
Ø Sometimes,
winning a game is not all about following rules, but also strategizing.
“diskarte”
Ø The
team that wins is the one with members contributing to team effort. If one member fails, no matter how fast and
skilled the others are, the team suffers.
THE SPONGE RACE
This
game was the most enjoyable. It was very
near the sea, we had to get wet, and we had to run barefoot along the sandy
shore… wet the sponge, pass it on and fill the pail with sea water squeezing
the sponge.
Discoveries and Lessons learned:
Ø The
girls were almost as fast as the boys!
Ø There’s
fun in speed! (we rarely, rarely run this fast in our daily life...)
Ø It
felt good to run on sandy shore!
Ø It
felt great to laugh, to jump, to cheer, to play with water..
Ø We
win if all of us are fast, if our sponge is heavy and if we squeeze enough..
Never mind the splash!
THE TRAIN
This was boys against girls game. The team members, all blindfolded except the
leader, walks towards particular goals with only the voice instructions and
directions of the leader being followed.
This game was about leadership and
followership.
the two team leaders being given instructions
and the winners are!
Discoveries and lessons learned:
Ø Much
of the success in this game depends on how clearly the instructions/directions
are given by the leader;
Ø No
matter how clear the instructions of the leader are, sometimes the team fails
because of misinterpretations and wrong relay of the instructions by other
members;
Ø We
should listen well. We will only
understand if we listen well.
Free Time
After the morning games, we were free
to do what we wanted: go to the market, roam and explore the place, swim to
sawa, eat, sing, chat, or sleep.
THE GROUPIES & JUMPSHOTS
What was intended to be just a plain
photo-shoot turned out to be a fun-filled frolicking and goofing-around the beach.
Because we intended to take amazing jump-shot pictures, I being the
photographer most of the time had to sport all kinds of body positions just to
achieve illusions of Jacky Chan and Bruce Lee flying kicks and jump shots. The stronger ones among the team had to jump
as high as they could; while the others (either they were injured [Jonalyn
suffered injuries during the Amazing Race], or were lazy to jump, or not in a
playful mood to jump) just stood up to balance the visuals. We created nice pictures and amazing
memories.
The Hawaiian Dance Contest
(Males: dancers, Females: singers)
(Males: dancers, Females: singers)
This fun game turned out to be the Main
Event because we scheduled it at sunset.
When the sun was about to set, I summoned the contestants to the shore
and started the “show”.
To the greatest surprise of my life,
they proudly did a grand dramatic entrance in full Hawaiian costume, to the
astonishment and entertainment of the audience. Yes, an audience was building
up, and the crowd was getting bigger.
There was a basketball tournament nearby and unfortunately for the
basketball organizers, the audience transferred to our Hawaiian dance venue and
started cheering and applauding, thinking that they were seeing “artistas”.
Pearly Shells versus Tiny Bubbles… the
wackiest, funniest moments of the TBA.
The boys gamely swayed their torsos (they did not have the hips to do
that so torso na lang), interpreted the song lyrics with their stiff hands and
comically performed the nostalgic Pearly Shells and Tiny Bubbles with exotic
but mediocre choreography that insulted the spirits of Hawaiian ancestors,
sending the Salapasap audience, including our own selves, laughing to death.
THE AMAZING SUNSET
As
the laughters and wacky moods gradually subsided, and the community
spectators one by one dispersed and left, along the horizon dramatically
emerged a breathtaking sunset.
It was so
amazing, so unique, so different, … I have never seen a sunset like that
before. The cloud- covered indigo skies
which were highlighted by a golden sun slowly setting.... mirrored and reflected
thru the still waters that gathered along the rocky basins on the shore. It was a wonderful work of art, a creation of
God. The sunset calmed our weary minds,
it reminded us of how blessed we are, how beautiful life is, and how great God
is. What a way to cultimate Day 1 …
Day 2
Part of the TBA itinerary was a Stroll
thru Crisologo Street and a Tour at The Baluarte in Vigan City. So on the second day, we woke up early,
packed our things and left Salapasap with refreshed spirit and joy in our
hearts. We thanked Analyn’s family from
the bottom of our hearts for the very warm welcome and accommodation.
Our Utmost Gratitude to Analyn's Family for the Warm Accomodation
Although
the time to stroll Crisologo Street was too short, most of us enjoyed. It’s the first time of some of us to be in
rustic Vigan. Given only an hour to be
at Crisologo Street, we hurriedly walked thru the famous street. Jonalyn whose foot was still swollen due to
the amazing race injury and some of the first timers rode a Calesa. Some went to the Bagnet store and bought tons
of bagnet. It looked like they’d be
hoarding bagnet for a one year supply.
Others bought souvenirs. I bought my favorite Vigan souvenir: the
Ilocano woven blanket, the blanket that I grew up with.
After
one hour in Crisologo Street, our COMELEC colleague, the Vigan icon Mr. Nelson Pajaro joined in and
ushered us to The Baluarte, passing thru a private access gate. Wow VIP treatment!! Inside Baluarte, Meowchie
and the rest of the animal lovers in the group feasted at the sight of real tigers!!
Sir Nestor introduced to us our Guide, Ms. CJ.
To save on time and make the most of our limited stay there, Ms. CJ
prescribed our itinerary.
THE ANIMAL SHOW
We
never expected that we would be watching an Animal Show!! Like small kids, we
were all so excited!! Thankfully, we were ushered in to take the front
seats. Some of us were chosen to
volunteer and be at a close encounter with the rare animals!!!
And for the finale, we had a group pic
with…. The Tiger!!! It was actually scary!!!
After the Animal Show, we toured the
rest of the Baluarte, the Glass Palace, and the camel area.
So this was not only team
building. The Vigan stroll and Baluarte
tour gave us time to do things we’ve always wanted to do… shopping for
souvenirs, buying food, taking pictures… watching animals… touching fierce
animals…. Laughing, .. being amazed… forgetting about work, and just being our
own private selves.
The Trip Back Home
Because
we were already exhausted, our trip back home was more of an agony. We tried to squeeze out whatever little
patience was left in our energy reservoir. Thanks God we reached our respective
homes safely.
TBA MEMORIES
Looking
back, the following are the things we love to remember most:
The
simple yet happy life in Salapasap. To
be happy, one need not be rich.
Salapasap was the perfect picture of a contented existence and
meaningful life: a simple house near the
sea; a home where loving family members
live; a residence surrounded by caring
neighbors; a place where we could eat fresh vegetables and organic food,
breathe in fresh sea air, take care of animals … a place where we don’t need
complications, sophistications and too much technology.
Each
of the co-workers that we see and mingle with everyday in the office is a person
with his/her own journey. It was good to
realize that. It was enlightening to
know that each of us has his/her own sadness, trials, fears, weaknesses,
anxieties, frustrations, longings…. What we used to see were the
negativities: the pride, the selfishness,
the arrogance, the stubbornness, the ego, the dark side.
After seeing one another from a
different light, we lit a candle of hope; hope that we will be more open-minded
to understand and bear with one another.
Afterall, our office-mates are our second family. We spend more of our waking time with them.
Beyond the workers and employees that
we are in the office, beneath the tough façade that we put up with, behind the
formalities, decorum and courtesies, lie our real selves: down-to-earth, simple,
child-like, forgiving, caring, loving, and above all human. We reconnect with our original selves during
TBA. We see and feel ourselves from a
different perspective. We remember,
realize and re-discover that afterall, we are persons with a good heart and a
soul embraced by Our Creator.
ssssssssshhh
just who is the photobomber???
sand castle, Precious, hindi Mayon Volcano.... :D
precious moments...
mother and daughter bonding
Looking forward to our next TBA and
hoping to rekindle friendships that turned cold, hoping to reconnect ties that
had to be severed, and hoping to strengthen and tighten the bond that at times
had loosened and grown weak. It’s ok
when those things happen. It’s normal in
organizations made of unique individuals.
What is important is we continue to keep rebuilding and re-strengthening
ourselves, and our Team Odeda.
To God be the glory!!